BOBO & SISI ~ LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP TIPS!

long distance relationship tipsBobo and I made another video! In my Monday Chit-Chat post I did mention that he came over last week, so we decided to use that  opportunity to film this video. We took hours from our precious time...lol. We share some tips that are useful for not just LDR's but for any other relationship. The last time we met was 4-5 months ago...like I said this LDR thing is looooooong! LOL We didn't see each other due to reason's best known to us. LDR is a choice.


I'm here complaining, someone actually left a comment on my YouTube Channel saying the last time she saw her boo was 4 years ago... let me just sharrap! #LDRTinzzz. Where are my fellow LDRians? Please share your own tips with me! Watch the video and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel! Almost at 3000 Subscribers now! *Skelewus
TIPS


  • Be Proactive!
  • Build your level of trust
  • Communicate!
  • Be Positive!
  • Have willpower!
  • Set Rules!

29 comments

  1. I don't understand how you cannot see for almost 5 months when living in the same country. Does he/you work weekends sorry I commented before watching the video if you may have answered that in the video because I will leave the video comment on YT. I always say that if you have no financial issues LDR living in the same country should see once a month if the distance is not too long like say Bristol and London then twice even thrice a month should do. If living in different countries at least once every 3 months if finances are not an issue.

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    1. Not everyone will understand why we haven't seen each other... like I said, I don't want to share that information. Thanks for your comment

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  2. owww so cute !!
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  3. SO many great points, nothing much to add.

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  4. on point! u guys are sooo right.

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  5. Madam a good blogger accepts and addresses positive criticism you on the other hand would rather delete them and act as if they were not written. To grow you will have to deal with criticism both positive and negative. The way you filter comments on here and your YT channel makes me agree with those BN readers who called you holier than thou, annoying etc. You are a blogger try and grow some thick skin I am not saying tolerate and post abusive comments but stop wishing away positive criticism that may be of help to you and others who watch you or read you. Don't try and make yourself appear to be something you are not by filtering comments and allowing only those that hail and praise you people see through that remember the comments on your first video on BN? People saw through you so if you want to be taken seriously as a blogger try and grow some thick skin and accept positive criticism and learn from your mistakes.

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    1. LOL. you're funny. No, i'm not perfect oh, na only you talk so. I'm so blessed and lucky to have positive people read my blog, so I would say your comment is quite strange to me.You can agree with strangers who don't know me :D. No mistakes have been made so far, so I'm clueless as to what you're talking about. Thank you for coming back to comment, and thank you for spending your time watching my videos! It counts! Anonymous or not.

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    2. You yourself go sit down

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  6. patience.
    u have to be extra sensitive to your partner's needs and moods.
    learn to let go of pain easily. no point holding on to anger if u're not going to see the person for awhile.

    most importantly prayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. this cant be over emphasized. u'd be surprised at what prayer can do in your relationship

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    1. Prayer comes first... thank you for your points! So valid!

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    2. wow! i just saw this post and it has been a blessing already. presently in a LDR. i needed to read this#just in time.

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  7. patience
    extra sensitivity to your partner's needs and wants.
    you have to have a nice forgiving spirit.

    and most importantly prayyyyyyyyyyyy. prayer cant be over emphasized.
    u'd be surprised at what God can help you with.

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  8. true yarns......nice one!

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    1. Sisi, I ain't doing LDR mehn! I love my woman nearby. I want to see her whenever I want to not because I have to do some mega travel. To those of you who do it, thumbs-up!!!
      Anyway, can Ajah to Surulere be considered LDR? #justcurious

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  9. Sisi, I ain't doing LDR mehn! I love my woman nearby. I want to see her whenever I want to not because I have to do some mega travel. To those of you who do it, thumbs-up!!!
    Anyway, can Ajah to Surulere be considered LDR? #justcurious

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  10. these tips were really helpful, i have more reasons to visit your blog now; *first-timer* :)

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  11. Go ...Go..Sisi Yemmie....really good tips on LDR........sincerely speaking...u've said it all......I'm also into LDR and believe me it's been wonderful ....our time-line is a year though......smiles******* sure reason to visit ur blog more often.....

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  12. Wow, you are one brave girl - being in a long distance relationship isn't easy at all, I tell you. Thanks a lot for the tips and I pray that it works out for you. I'm looking forward to seeing pictures of the wedding :)

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  13. Nice Tips! And your right they must say negative things no matter what, so try to ignore it and be strong.

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  14. Nice Tips! Communication is key and looking forward to seeing your spouse is fun.

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  15. who can possibly hate on ya!! anyways haters gon hate potato gon potate. my boyf m i dated for 2 years before he moved to naij for nysc while i move the yankee to finish sch. e no easy but prayer n constant communication i feel is key. thank you for sharing. taking mental notes.

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  16. Yemi, i really want to see a surprised videos by Nigerians who are in long distance relationship please. Your blog is so interesting you know. Thumbs uo

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  17. Im sure u have LDR for the same reason I just got screwed by a Nigerian. I found out he has a wife in Nigeria. What Is wrong with u people? Stop using people for ur gain. There Is in no way God condones this. Wake up Nigeria and stop the scams or u will feel Gods rath.

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  18. You are so cute and Hilarious. Nice topic

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  19. My Man and I stay in the same country and we have not see since January. It's going well and strong. It's not smooth but you just have to trust each other and communicate.

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