If you've not read Sugabelly's story of Rape then you've not been on twitter, Nigerian twitter to be exact. Sugabelly is a talented artist (illustrator) and blogger at sugabellyrocks.com you should check out her drawings :)
Although she has mentioned how Audu Abubakar's son's raped her in the past. Lately because of his passing the story was resurrected and it's a good thing it was brought up because it brings to light the many bad things happening in this Nigeria. Shout out to Sugabelly for sharing her story, it takes a lot of courage. Read it HERE
1. VICTIM BLAMING: No matter the situation, the first thing people do is victim blaming which is the number one reason victims don't share their stories. It starts with " What were yo doing there?", why were you wearing a miniskirt", why didn't you have common sense to leave"...comments like that blame the victim and justifies the abuser.