"A MAN WITH AN ERECTION HAS NO SENSE" TRUE/FALSE

Ok, so me I jejely going through some blog comments on recent divorces in the Nollywood Industry  and you know how comments can be: some are off point, while some just expand the topic at hand but they all centered around cheating. The first comment I read that drew me back was:

"A man with an erection has no sense" and the context in which it was written was this: "if a man wants to have sex he can do it with whoever, whenever and wherever" Is this true? I don't agree, it makes men look like dogs that have no brain or self control like didirin. Haba. Men, make una talk oh! Defend yourselves. I did a post on Lies Women Believe About Men last year. Check it out HERE

The second comment was directly about husband snatching. "Men are not property! No one can ‘steal’ your husband without his consent so if your hubby is nicked from you then the blame lies with him not the woman! "
I very much agree with this comment. Cheating is a choice unless the man was jazzed and even if he was jazzed it's because he opened himself to be jazzed "if the wall has no cracks lizards cannot penetrate" ...That's why it baffles me when women attack other women when the man is found cheating, wetin concern agbero with overload? should you not be facing the person that broke his vows? Feel free to agree or disagree.

The third comment I read was this "I am a Nigerian man and I want you to take this to the Bank. 95% of Nigerian men would never let go of a woman they deflowered as their wife"...He went on to say "I am not saying they wont cheat on her o but they will adore and cherish her die"!  LOL. What is adoration? what is being cherished if there's no respect. If you truly adore and cherish someone, you wont cheat on them. Bia, pocket your adoration. 

It's all fine and good, Nigerian men want to marry vaaargin but are busy dis-virgining other babes and future wives. I do not believe that love is conditional on if the babe is a virgin or not, there are people who have married prostitutes and love them just as much if not more than the virgin brides...virginity is not a condition for love. True love is unconditional...*flips hair* Abeg, don't go and misquote me oh, I  did not say that you should not be a virgin bride, I'm just saying it is not a condition for love. Be good girls :)

You can choose to agree or disagree with any of the comments above. I'm waiting! *shines teeth*

18 comments

  1. Totally agree with the 2nd comment. As for the 3rd.. Hmmm society is very unfair to women. A man will cheat and everyone will come begging the wife. If the woman cheats they will throw her out. I believe men don't have much constraints because they don't have much to loose really.
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    1. agreed.... a lover who lacks integrity am being told only that small thing... ah u r regretting now na. He got money....women God bless us

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  2. my favorite sisi, hw r u? it is so true that a man with erection has no common sense atall.. Lemme share a stowie of one of my boss, he is young, intelligent, and has lil change in his pocket with a small ride.. he got married to this virgin lady he loves d lady his from his hometown.. after one month of marriage, i started noticing dat if i see black today, i will c green tomoro, c yellow next tomorrow, c albino in 4 days tym.. his kinda erection na die. lol. cheating is his hobby.. he loves to cheat.. kia 1, 2 news started gettin to the new bride about d husband cheating attitude, then it got to a stage wia d tiny leg gehs will call her on phone nd threaten her, all dis wahala resulted in2 B.p for the poor lady and she died when the marriage was a year old, after the death of this lady 1 month later d guy brought a geh to the ofiz to introduce to us as his fiancee, am sure d geh is from d numerous gehs he cheats wit bfor d death of his wife.. i personally welcomed her and gave her, her own number 12th cos that the twelth geh he has brought to d ofiz fr d short period of tym i knew him.. when d geh asked me wat twelth means i told her it my favorite numba nd i lov to call ladies who look beautiful to me in that manner.. she smiled. i tot she had lil sense in her head so i told her to watch tyler perry's movie title "the have and the have not" if anybody has seen that movie they will understand wat am tryin 2 say... vooms* bfor d blink of an eye 13th came, 14th came 15th came.. that was when i went for maternity leave... so anybodi who still tinks faitfulness is still in existence in most marriage this days is on a very long thing.. men loves to cheat xpecially wen dey av an erection ... and yes a man can hav sex wit whomever he wants anytym he wants and still xpect u to play d understanding wife.. my man has cheated on me bfor tho he denied wen i confronted him but na me know wetin i see.. u b virgin or not dat does nt stp them from cheatin.. i was a virgin too.. i actually got married 2 my first lov.. somtyms i do not blame d ladies who wants a divorce wen a man cheats on them, but i wouldn't advise any lady to divorce any man.. if u c he is cheating on u confront him, if he denies let him b. face ur work nd if u hav a child face ur pikin. sooner than later he will realise his mistakes if he notice u r drifting away from him nd he will apologise.. ayam talking from xperience "MEN LOVES TO CHEAT I THINK IT MAKES THEM FEEL THEY ARE IN CONTROL".. GBOOOOOOOOOOOA

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    1. I know some1 who apologised after cheating but never repented. the root of the matter is society has really played the growth of this infidelity. My dear lust is lust. if you are a Christian uproot it out of your marriage in Jesus name.

      What irritates me is am not an inconsiderate person. I ve done my best to be the best I can be. I don't have friends especially male. Married men want to go out with me even tho' their marriages are not even a year old. I have stopped visiting my married female friends at their home and insist we meet in an eatery. ok am sure u get the picture.. I am single...
      I discussed this with my Mum and she told me even married women cheat...
      I believe society has breath that it's ok for men to cheat. so that's y they aren't discipline. it has also fan the idea women have to depend on men.

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  3. lol i saw those comment to and i was just like *blank stare* like what water are this people sipping on

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  4. Well I'll like to quote from the popular TV series Desperate Housewives "An erect penis doesn't have a conscience ,"
    Enough said.. lol

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  5. Like the saying is the men's world...hmmmm...buh i strongly believe that what is gud for the goose is also good for the gander

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  6. Crazy world

    Please I will marry a man that will not cheat on me because we both have a covenant with God
    He will fear God o
    No half measures abeg.

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  7. I agree with you sisi on all three comments. lmao@ pocket adoration.
    my husband will always say FLEE wen there is temptation. Any guy that cheats gave room for the cheating.

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  8. My dear, its not always true oh..!

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  9. Some peoplont have conscience ....respect and love should be defined together..if u love someone u should respect the person and not hurt the person. My bf have cheated on me twice well at first I blame it on long distance relationship and the second time he said the girl was pressurising him ni ooo.now am looking out the third One am out cause I can't kill myself abeg CU's ave neva done anyyin to hurt him even though he's far away... I pray to God to have his way and give me someone that deserves me

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  10. The stage is set for Africa in storytelling - there are a lot of Chimamanda Adichies out there.

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  11. Dat quote tlkn abt virginity is not it. My bby fada met me a virgin, disflowered me n infact d owner of my 1st pregnancy in existence. Nevertheless he was wv mi in labour ward n was evn holdn my legs fr d midwife n saw my bby cum out of my vagina stl wre is he today? Gone with d wind. So all dose virginity n hm been in d labour ward wv u wl cherish u r all stories. My 2cents

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  13. Blessings.....
    Women need to stop giving men excuses to do their shit. Stop giving me so little credit in order to justify not holding them accountable.....let HIV be a good motivator for you to rise up and stop telling yourself lies!

    Absolutely agree, men are not property, they go if they want to, when they want to because they can. Women stop blaming women for your infidelity woes and take a good look at the man standing beside you, he carries the weight of the responsibility for dishonoring and dismantling your relationship, the woman is just a symptom, the man and his choices are the CAUSE.

    3RD: BS to the 10th power.

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  14. I agree that once a man is erect it is difficult to control himself to a point but that does not mean he has lost his senses

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  16. I can see that most ladies here has no head at all, they only think with their anus.
    Why will you just conclude that all men cheat? The more I read this, the more I feel like banging all the ladies you have on ur blog. You are just painting a scenario for your marriage and making the guys believe that it is uncontrollable to cheat. Please, to all ladies, wise up grow up and stop thinking negative.

    Remember, that what you think you believe, what you beleive, you behave, and what you behave you become. Let help and save our future husband. All men don't cheat.

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