Do no not keep revisiting past offences. Learn to apologise [I promise it won't kill you] and learn to accept apologies. Keep forgiving each other. "The things two people do to each other they remember. If they stay together, it's not because they forget; it's because they forgive."- Demi Moore
Ps. Congrats to Kola of BetaMotivation on her wedding and for letting me use her photo! Too cute! Be sure to visit her blog.