GUYS: 5 SIGNS SHE'S NOT INTO YOU AT ALL!!
Today I want to help my brothers, I know some of you read my blog...shout out to you! I was listening to Sharing Life Issues With ChazB and this bros was complaining that he's in a relationship with a babe, but she never calls, hardly picks his calls, he went on to list a bunch of things and was asking what he should do.
My guy, I want to help you today-if there's this babe you've been toasting since forever and no matter what you do , she no gel for you, then you have to move on. You might think you're in a relationship but it's all one chance. The good thing is that there are so many tell tale signs but it's like you men don't see them quickly, and most women would hardly tell you when they are not interested, they want you to figure it out, now shine your eyes:
SHE DOESN'T CALL YOU?
Have you ever seen a girl in love before? Or even a girl in crush? She would call you non-stop, text you 24/7 and when you call, she picks on the first ring because she's been looking forward to speaking with you. But if "your babe" can go 2 days without communication in whatever form...my guy, you need to shine your eyes.
SHE'S ALWAYS COLLECTING
On Monday evening you visit her and you must make sure you buy shawarma before you leave, she doesn't offer you anything in her house oh. On Tuesday she will ask you for recharge card, but she never calls you with it. On Wednesday she will tell you she's broke. On Thursday she wants you to buy her a perfume. On Friday her friend that sells Vaargin peruvian hair "accidentally" stops by while you're visiting; and they cajole you to buy it for her...you need to pause and evaluate the giving vs the taking in this relationship. Don't be a maga.
SOCIAL MEDIA INVISIBILITY
We are at that age in the world where people show off anything good they have on social media- from bbm updates, to instagram posts, Facebook status, tweets etc. If you are in a seemingly serious relationship with a girl and she has not mistakenly mentioned you on any of these platforms...then your relationship fit be audio...na only hear we dey hear, dem nor dey see am.
NO ALONE TIME
When a girl really likes you, she will want to spend time alone with you, getting to know you better (nor think bad thing)...you might be at a party but it will be you and her sitting, talking about every random thing. A bad sign is if you can never catch her alone: if you ask her out on a date, she comes with like 3 of her friends who order everything on the menu. Never alone, you always have to navigate her friends...sigh. Who are you dating again?
Notice how she acts when you're around. Does she seem slightly irritated? Look at her face well you will know her smile is not genuine. Is she a bit stiff around you? Always giving you side hugs or air hugs. A lady that likes you will melt like butter under the hot sun...if you notice discomfort, unease, distance...then my brother it is time to re-evaluate this thing you are doing.
These are 5 easy signs and there are more which other readers of this blog will comment on, so let me give them a chance.
Posted by Sisi Yemmie at Wednesday, March 18, 2015