What Should He Do?
abortion, gistdotcom, herbalist, infertility, jazzman, jujumen, nigerian men, ovaries Saturday, April 9, 2011
Well, I was doing some waka jugbe (walk-about) in my area when I stumbled upon this gist;you know how the Bible says that "the footsteps of the righteous are ordered by the Lord...".Yup thats me!LOL. I saw people sitting down and na so this guy kon dey nack tory of him life.
He's married with a daughter, him say nor be say he wan really marry the wife wey he get for house oh, say na cos say she get belle naim everybody join hand for the marriage. He said he even denied the pregnancy sef, but when the pikin was born, she was his photocopy.
Fastforward 2 years later, the wife no kon fit get belle again...her family now took them to the wife's village to meet a jujuman, aka babalawo aka jazzman...the jujuman say make dem pay 70 thousand naira. They agreed to pay and like joke the woman carry belle the next month. 5 months into the pregnancy the jazzman say make them bring 700 thousand naira. Husband say hian! For wia? say make jazzman collect the belle back. My brethren, the next week complication, after complication plagued the pregnancy sotay doctors had to abort it. The doctor said that the fetus was in the fallopian tube and that they they had to cut one of the wife's ovaries. K leg number 1.
The doctor further stated that the woman had just one ovary, make the husband go ask her where the other ovary waka go. Husband asks wife and she says "i nor tell u before say i do abortion for that my former guy?" apparently, in her earlier abortion, one ovary had been comoted. Anyhow sha, since there was no other choice than to cut the second ovary, they did. Now the woman cannot fit to get belle again. Double K leg! The man says he has told his wife that he wants to find another person to marry and bear him children, but the woman no gree.
The man kon look my side dey talk say "Ive always liked yoruba girls, and I promise to marry yoruba girl this time, i will take her to America, i will buy her hummer, I will......." Why is this man campaigning in my direction? I was the only yoruba girl dia, I quickly carried myself and my lovely ovaries out of the place....i nor dey for my yam no done.
1st of all, if you cannot marry a person why date them at all? even to the point of pregnancy?
2ndly, why did he go to babalawo? babalawo tins no dey last, dem be like china products.
3rdly, its funny how pregnancies that are denied end up being photocopies of the "Denyee".lol
Abeg my people, what should this guy do?make we try balance this scale.
Posted by Sisi Yemmie at Saturday, April 09, 2011