tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post5878953010729648562..comments2024-03-28T11:45:28.270+00:00Comments on SISIYEMMIE: Nigerian Food & Lifestyle Blog : Men of nowadays...!!!Sisi Yemmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15350113579849499656noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-8901000530461535812018-01-09T22:29:00.302+00:002018-01-09T22:29:00.302+00:00Dear sisiyemmie, your post is very funny, and real...Dear sisiyemmie, your post is very funny, and real...but why can’t a man and a woman share responsibilities in the home. These days when women are going to school, coming out with good degrees, and becoming professionals, there is nothing wrong with them contributing partly to the finances in the home. She is a partner, not an onlooker. One size doesn’t fit all. It really depends on how you look at it. 50/50 share of responsibilities doesn’t mean divorce. Women are stronger than that...but great blog!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-44634989213170326962017-04-29T19:35:59.604+01:002017-04-29T19:35:59.604+01:00Sisyemi, God will continue to bless you all around...Sisyemi, God will continue to bless you all around. This your topic is like an eye opener for me. It made me realized that have not been grateful to God for the husband he gave me and I do not show or appreciate him the way I should. Since have moved to the Uk have not been able to work because of my kids over 5 years. My hubby has being the only one taking care of the bills, on top of that I do not respect him. Am so guilt right now for not appreciating all is sacrifices. I need to change!!! Thanks Sisyemi. This is my first time reading your blog though am one of your subscriber on YouTube right from the start. omowunmiawoniyinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-47094808134031353782014-04-28T20:40:51.748+01:002014-04-28T20:40:51.748+01:00I am currently experiencing this in my marriage. M...I am currently experiencing this in my marriage. My husband even asked me to sit down and discuss how 'selfish' i've been by refusing to share the bills equally. This is a man who earns three times what i earn o!! I was so furious, i told him to pls bury that thot sharp sharp. No way on this earth will i share anything in household expenses. I already buy my kids clothes and add to the food money i'm given. For the first 18months of our marriage, no food money o until i vex. Currently, that is ALL i get from him o. No birthday gifts, no val gifts, NADA. On top of that, i should come and share in things like petrol, internet and dstv bills. Told him to just forget it sharp sharp. This is the WORD Sisi Yemmie!! Wonder why i'm just finding this blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-40647878993742223442013-04-26T14:07:21.011+01:002013-04-26T14:07:21.011+01:00I cnt say I completely agree w Sis yemmie. Today g...I cnt say I completely agree w Sis yemmie. Today girls are in school to become important n world changing persons, they earn a living and therefore there is nothing wrong in also paying the bills. <br />Now, u say today everything is 50/50 well I say it's d couple who agreed to that nothing imposed that on them n am sure if they decided that then it works for them. A man who pays 100% in the home does not justify extramarital r/ships frm either partner. <br />Hey, wateva works to make ur r/ship rock *wink* do it!!!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-49543726482255135692012-04-26T11:12:23.674+01:002012-04-26T11:12:23.674+01:00On Point!!!!!On Point!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-12247733700205364872011-05-04T15:49:25.435+01:002011-05-04T15:49:25.435+01:00lmao if Daddy say jump,the woman go say ow high.yo...lmao if Daddy say jump,the woman go say ow high.you gifted Dear,the way relationships and marriages dey go self na only God go help us.seanininoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-32079614905282855392011-04-01T18:56:09.126+01:002011-04-01T18:56:09.126+01:00This na true talk sisi Yemmie!!
I bia la! gbam!
S...This na true talk sisi Yemmie!!<br />I bia la! gbam!<br /><br />Sisi Adia.The experiences of an achiever.......https://www.blogger.com/profile/07045411491614772598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-1816816547427501782011-02-18T03:08:52.060+00:002011-02-18T03:08:52.060+00:00your argument is invalid, it makes a very emotiona...your argument is invalid, it makes a very emotional case but not a logical one.<br />so if a man contributes 100% of the finances to the relationship/marriage, does that mean that he has the right to disrespect the woman??? or does it mean he decides everything regardless of what the woman wants or needs??? i mean, why shouldn't he because he is the sole provider and according to your argument, he is king and therefore the woman is meant to submit??<br /><br />Relationships/marriages are about sharing and compromises, i.e. financial responsibilities, occupational aspirations and goals, personal growth and mutual respect between the sexes. not one person's goals, finances or ambitions should be held higher or esteemed over the other spouse. <br /><br />if your measure of a man depends on how financially secure he is then your compass on relationships may be skewed, it would almost be the same for me to measure a woman on how attractive she is and how much babies she could have for me. <br /><br />thats just my 2 cents or my 2 kobo.lovelife4salehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15047608615616800085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-19145615773228069812011-02-02T21:08:37.941+00:002011-02-02T21:08:37.941+00:00First of all I have to say that I miss broken engl...First of all I have to say that I miss broken english...this brough back so many memories...and u r so right! Im still smiling though. I love ur writing styleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-39273816598717639222011-01-15T12:32:31.487+00:002011-01-15T12:32:31.487+00:00Happy new Year o, who dey here?Happy new Year o, who dey here?Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-49419542478736403572011-01-14T22:48:32.858+00:002011-01-14T22:48:32.858+00:00Hi Sisi Yemmie, Long time. I have given you the St...Hi Sisi Yemmie, Long time. I have given you the Stylish and Versatile Bloggers award. To know waht to do, see my blog for more details.<br /><br />atilola.blogspot.com@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-78284665653563065572011-01-13T09:28:05.397+00:002011-01-13T09:28:05.397+00:00I just gave you for an award for Stylish and Versa...I just gave you for an award for Stylish and Versatile blogger.<br /><br />Check my page to see how it worksNutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-39721140267573533452011-01-09T12:05:15.186+00:002011-01-09T12:05:15.186+00:00lwkmd,my dear na so oh, it used to be ,"what ...lwkmd,my dear na so oh, it used to be ,"what does your husband do?", now its "what does your wife do?",psheeeeeeeeew,nonsense banga riceThe suffragette https://www.blogger.com/profile/09459131094396453705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-24066412975544739342010-12-24T19:21:53.710+00:002010-12-24T19:21:53.710+00:00LOL.. Wonder.How.I.Never.Stumbled.On.This.Blog.So....LOL.. Wonder.How.I.Never.Stumbled.On.This.Blog.So.Far...<br /><br />O make sense gaan.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-62895223621033145692010-12-23T22:37:47.433+00:002010-12-23T22:37:47.433+00:00Love this post...for humour and for the sense it m...Love this post...for humour and for the sense it makes.Parakeethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14034748785098588120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-46987517507472825502010-12-17T16:33:59.283+00:002010-12-17T16:33:59.283+00:00Looks like you are an expert in this field, you re...Looks like you are an expert in this field, you really got some great points there, thanks.<br /><br />- RobsonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-58011570962195661102010-12-14T02:55:57.421+00:002010-12-14T02:55:57.421+00:00Heck,i cannot even think up a sarcastic response t...Heck,i cannot even think up a sarcastic response to refute all of these long yarns, so i must admit that, Na true u talk!!!But wait small, i will find a counter argument soon!<br /><br />Haba, see how women just dey throw you hi-5 comments!T.Noteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15615737640818854979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-30252791748615306252010-11-28T16:39:16.453+00:002010-11-28T16:39:16.453+00:00ROFL - I'm not sure I'm supposed to laugh ...ROFL - I'm not sure I'm supposed to laugh but I like this post. Some very valid points<br />Your future husband berra listen up sharp! LolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-77785055418622869972010-11-28T11:19:44.808+00:002010-11-28T11:19:44.808+00:00lol, if the men want 50/50, hen they should be rea...lol, if the men want 50/50, hen they should be ready to share the house chore 50/50 abi? why would i share bills only? & he sits to watch t.v. read newspapers or go out with the boys why i slave my ass off doing the chores at home! They are not serious! want to drink their beer & have it indeed! They should also be ready to baby-sit while women go out to have fun with the gals if they want 50/50 marriage! It's only in MONEY matters they want 50/50 but in respect & slaving away, they want 70/30!...A wonderful write-up, & i can just imagine how some guys would be cringing from this post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-31953146407072717182010-11-27T00:15:43.056+00:002010-11-27T00:15:43.056+00:00LWKM! U r so on point! The man is the breadwinner,...LWKM! U r so on point! The man is the breadwinner, the woman his support period! Responsibility is very directly proportional to submission whether it is supposed to be so or not.Omoregeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00012192814709955219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-32215593178556687892010-11-25T13:37:05.594+00:002010-11-25T13:37:05.594+00:00LMAO!
Yemmie yemmie! You are so on point!
Are y...LMAO! <br /><br />Yemmie yemmie! You are so on point! <br />Are you sure you're not running marriage counselling services as a business? 'cause you wrote this funny piece like some urban thesis put together after a great deal of research!<br /><br />I'm a guy...a husband for that matter. I'm a tetotaller and other married guys who drink beer see me as a weirdo because I'm not in their caucus...that apart from other things that men do that I don't concede to; keeping 'extra tyres' outside (almost every married guy in my workplace has an 'extra tyre' or patronises 'take-aways') Its hard to come across a real good hubby nowadays. My wife knows that I'm doing my best to be an exception. <br /><br />Its sick whats happening to the bandwagon of men of nowadays - minus the exceptions!Afronutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15566418094230419342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-39848681289449207172010-11-22T08:32:11.439+00:002010-11-22T08:32:11.439+00:00Mscheew some of them even have the audacity to spe...Mscheew some of them even have the audacity to specify that they a want professional as a wife.. <br />Really infuriating. <br />I gotta say it's the world we live in as women contribute to this silliness. <br />Cause if a woman doesn't immediately agree to this 'nonsense agreement of 50/50' , which I don't know if it's out of desperation or s stupid need to please without reason then this surely won't arise.<br />It's the hand that you give to your man that he deals you.. It's that simple.. <br />Women are to blame too. <br />Now, that's not to say that a woman can't help out her husband if he hits some difficult times or setbacks.. Just saying..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10301603117549184097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-33776673042908905842010-11-19T03:06:38.079+00:002010-11-19T03:06:38.079+00:00lmao!!!!! buhahahalmao!!!!! buhahahauniqueLatihttp://latifatayoola.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-61519072478791852272010-11-18T15:28:30.062+00:002010-11-18T15:28:30.062+00:00Boys no go too gbadun this post o. But e make sens...Boys no go too gbadun this post o. But e make sense die. Publicize it abeg. Let everyone read. <br /><br />Me I support sey make woman sef dey contribute financially, u kno, economy is hard. But ehn, de tin no be 50/50 at all. <br /><br />Lol, your pidgin is a trip mehn. Loved this post. You would be a hit on Wazobia FM if you had a show dia. 3 Thumbs up!ishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06112377307620987180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-44867263024398867682010-11-18T12:24:12.405+00:002010-11-18T12:24:12.405+00:00Absolutely correct....Absolutely correct....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com