tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post4416277379693842444..comments2024-03-28T11:45:28.270+00:00Comments on SISIYEMMIE: Nigerian Food & Lifestyle Blog : WARNING SIGNS YOU’RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!!!Sisi Yemmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15350113579849499656noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-59991764780667041842014-03-03T15:30:53.044+00:002014-03-03T15:30:53.044+00:00I love your blog. it's excitingI love your blog. it's excitingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-18443770383418637832014-03-03T15:30:18.512+00:002014-03-03T15:30:18.512+00:00awwwwwwwwawwwwwwwwAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-30659303791656073722014-03-03T15:29:35.422+00:002014-03-03T15:29:35.422+00:00yourr post always makes senseyourr post always makes senseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-74714642089599711082014-02-27T20:53:06.909+00:002014-02-27T20:53:06.909+00:00Hmm!just like my crazy ex who can't seem to un...Hmm!just like my crazy ex who can't seem to understand why am not exactly excited about seeing him not to talk of getting back together with him.left to him he is Gods gift to me and once he snaps his fingers I have to jump.sending me stupid texts like "I am going to be around next week for my sisters wedding,make urself available so we can do dat thing!its been a long while for us"<br />Imagine!someone I broke up with in 2011.And gave me a slap in 2012 after I paid him a visit and I refused him sex.<br />Smh!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-12763893181158770482014-02-27T12:45:25.457+00:002014-02-27T12:45:25.457+00:00You are my heroine. Well done for having the stren...You are my heroine. Well done for having the strength to walk away. I trust you will find love with a man who treats you like the beautiful and strong woman that you are. May God heal the scars of your body and soul. lots of love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-68591154179367466492014-02-27T09:42:20.736+00:002014-02-27T09:42:20.736+00:00busive relationships are an all too real part of t...busive relationships are an all too real part of the society and it pains me that anyone would allow themselves to be bullied. I'v been very careful to avoid abusive relationships because someone very close to me has lived and is still living in one to date. She has learned to be stronger and protect herself but it wasn't easy. Sisi Yemi, i think it would be lovely to have a singles seminar that would cover this topic (i woun't mind helping out with it). There are a lot of misguided singles who think its all a show of care or are too naive to know the signs when the see them, as was the case of this relation of mine. Onomehttp://onomebuzz.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-84782240059341686982014-02-26T21:26:16.232+00:002014-02-26T21:26:16.232+00:00Here in the states there are men being abused the ...Here in the states there are men being abused the same way as well but are too embarrassed to talk and also don't defend themselves because the police are always on the women's side. It's just sad Ivie9jahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02285025076207996327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-38325075264314714902014-02-26T21:20:22.211+00:002014-02-26T21:20:22.211+00:00Thank God you were able to leave. Many people beli...Thank God you were able to leave. Many people believe that they can't be alone but it's better to be single than to be dead or crippled by love. Real love does not hurt. Ivie9jahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02285025076207996327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-13823992608327463192014-02-26T19:01:08.110+00:002014-02-26T19:01:08.110+00:00OMG, thank God you left him. DO NOT get back toget...OMG, thank God you left him. DO NOT get back together with him under any circumstances!!! Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-8732301673153479332014-02-26T17:50:03.948+00:002014-02-26T17:50:03.948+00:00You know my issue? The people in abusive relations...You know my issue? The people in abusive relationships don't need all the signs you just pointed out to them. They already know they are in abusive relationships, yet they still remain in it. And the reason they stay is what we should tackle.@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-75739546134725570302014-02-26T14:59:40.942+00:002014-02-26T14:59:40.942+00:00Well said @CannimeWell said @CannimeAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00548275830082932481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-27147198089810172942014-02-26T14:57:16.655+00:002014-02-26T14:57:16.655+00:00Awww peleThank God you are out of there and thank ...Awww peleThank God you are out of there and thank God you are alive.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00548275830082932481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-20600169896340840752014-02-26T14:55:32.138+00:002014-02-26T14:55:32.138+00:00yea true...Nobody has the power to change anybodyyea true...Nobody has the power to change anybodyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00548275830082932481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-67658745485005344622014-02-26T14:08:48.293+00:002014-02-26T14:08:48.293+00:00Maybe I just love myself too much sha.. because a ...Maybe I just love myself too much sha.. because a simple thing as raising your voice at me can end a relationship not to talk of one man laying his filthy hands on me. As far as I am concerned I am too priceless for that kind of rubbish.. We teach people how to love us. Only God loves best. So ladies, love yourself first so that man can see that you don't play with you and if he can not maintain or exceed your standard of self love.. he should shift abeg. No woman should be beaten in the name of love and marriage. When you love yourself you will not need anyone to tell you when you are not treated with love. Very good warning signs Sisiyemmie. Keep up the good work.CANNIMEhttp://cannime.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-9893708484603445552014-02-26T13:57:38.377+00:002014-02-26T13:57:38.377+00:00Very well said Sisi Yemmie. I wrote a similar post...Very well said Sisi Yemmie. I wrote a similar post (15 signs of a potentially abusive relationship) on my blog few weeks ago. Some of my tips include: <br />Hypersensitivity - He is easily insulted and will often rant and rave about injustices that are just part of life.<br />Sudden mood swings - He switches from loving to angry in a matter of minutes.<br />Isolation - He tries to cut you off from family and friends; deprives you of a phone or car, or tries to prevent you from holding a job.<br /><br />I really hope women become more vigilant and don't get too drunk in love that you overlook some of these excesses. <br /><br />Again, thanks for the post. Men and women alike need to see this post. Some men have these tendencies but they swear they wouldn't abuse their women. If these flaws aren't addressed and dealt with, it's only a matter of time and the "right" situation for abuse to manifest.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897991059755553483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-17632843587856222902014-02-26T13:12:52.658+00:002014-02-26T13:12:52.658+00:00My fiance and I broke up about a week ago and in a...My fiance and I broke up about a week ago and in all honesty he does almost everything on this list. Always doing funny stuff and making me believe it was my fault. Being over possessive and always accusing me of being unfaithful for no just reason. I had to leave after being beaten to a pulp last monday cos he asked me not to leave the house and I just went downstairs to get airtime. Wish I had seen this article earlier it would have saved me alot of stress Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-27638833495385060942014-02-26T13:08:31.502+00:002014-02-26T13:08:31.502+00:00Humm, it hapns a lot in our society §Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ wome...Humm, it hapns a lot in our society §Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ women wld do anytin and accept anytin jst to be called a Mrs sth, but to wat extent shd dy go.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-44473249474650611542014-02-26T12:19:59.734+00:002014-02-26T12:19:59.734+00:00True, there are always warning signs. The truth is...True, there are always warning signs. The truth is that some women go into the relationship hoping that they can magically "change" the guy. Hmmm, I'm not a huge advocate of love changing a guy (a cheater or a wife beater). <br /><br />No woman should stand for abuse. If he slaps you today, he will punch you tomorrow...that's how I see it o! Then again, I might be wrong. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05837503694871192111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-70295319642612845372014-02-26T11:47:58.055+00:002014-02-26T11:47:58.055+00:00Na wah o! Some men are beast. Anyway sisi is right...Na wah o! Some men are beast. Anyway sisi is right, there's always a warning sign, but some ladies like men with animal instinct. Some ladies like guys that are physical and would call a nice caring guy weak and not cool with ladies. Its all about the individual. The bible I read does not tell me to treat people like animal but to love. It now depends on the ideology ur faith is based on. My father has never raised his hand on my mother, so its not part of the culture I know. Woman are not mens slave or pets, but help mate.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07466910999976915211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-15621181408267987062014-02-26T11:36:50.631+00:002014-02-26T11:36:50.631+00:00Its quite sad that so many women and men alike are...Its quite sad that so many women and men alike are in situations like this. Thank you for the tips sisi.<br /><br />Suzanneobasi@blogspot.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00648694417058066684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-664560698598687802014-02-26T11:25:11.885+00:002014-02-26T11:25:11.885+00:00Sisi Yemmie, you are right! We need to be watchful...Sisi Yemmie, you are right! We need to be watchful and stop making excuses for abusive partners...I personally believe any man that has anger issues should seek help before going into a relationship. May God not let us be victims of abuse in Jesus name.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00548275830082932481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-89893183366299079802014-02-26T10:57:15.992+00:002014-02-26T10:57:15.992+00:00hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmn.. som men r j...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmn.. som men r jus sadist naturally. i hate stuffs lik u cant go out, u cant wear jewelries, u cant call a friend, wia r u comin frm, who did u go nd c? questions lik dat get me angry.. mz bombshellAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-76795834419968506032014-02-26T10:30:07.792+00:002014-02-26T10:30:07.792+00:00I believe the end to rubbish is a reform in our ma...I believe the end to rubbish is a reform in our marriage counselling " system "<br />It's not all about patience , tolerance and being docile . Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16267836389729468714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8524602601769529186.post-9373282211251345522014-02-26T10:24:27.931+00:002014-02-26T10:24:27.931+00:00Sisi , you are blessed . It's sad that our soc...Sisi , you are blessed . It's sad that our society , esp culture and religion deters women from opening up too soon . Some victims even believe they kinda deserve it , like its a family curse !!!. <br />I have friends who are in such relationships with brainwashed mindset. How can one help such ? Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16267836389729468714noreply@blogger.com